Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Gains with losses
Gains with losses
A rich man from Arab, lose all money in a big bussiness. He sold his house, car, pay off debt. At that moment, alone in his one-person, no children, they were down, hound only a beloved and a book with him.
In a night of snow, he came to a remote village of Mao Peng to find a sheltered. he saw an oil lamp, the only body with a match lit oil lamps, ready to come up with book reading. But a gust of wind suddenly blew out the lights, immediately surrounded by darkness. The loneliness of the elderly into the darkness, life is Tongche despair, he even thought of the end of their lives. However, the legislation around to hound him a ray of comfort, he sighed with frustration deep sleep. Wake up the next day, he suddenly found beloved dogs were also killed outside the door. Xiangyiweiming only touched the dogs, he suddenly decided to end his own life, the world is no longer memorable. As a result, he had a final glance around all. At this time, he found that not all villages throughout the terrible silence in a quiet way. He can not move hurriedly, ah, horrible, dead bodies, dead bodies everywhere, a mess. It is clear that the village was last night the bandits looted the whole village a breadwinner did not stay. To see this terrible scene, the elderly are not sharp mind, ah! I am here only to survive, I have to live strong. At this point, a red sun rising, according to get around a bright, happy people to think I am a world where the only survivors, I have no reason not to treasure their own. Although I lost my beloved dogs, but I got a life, this is the most valuable in life.
With a firm belief in the elderly, facing the bright sun and starting. Everyone will encounter setbacks and failures, particularly those engaged in direct cause of the people, for your failure and painful, in fact, you have been in life. The key is to have your understanding that life is a series of Gains with losses .
A rich man from Arab, lose all money in a big bussiness. He sold his house, car, pay off debt. At that moment, alone in his one-person, no children, they were down, hound only a beloved and a book with him.
In a night of snow, he came to a remote village of Mao Peng to find a sheltered. he saw an oil lamp, the only body with a match lit oil lamps, ready to come up with book reading. But a gust of wind suddenly blew out the lights, immediately surrounded by darkness. The loneliness of the elderly into the darkness, life is Tongche despair, he even thought of the end of their lives. However, the legislation around to hound him a ray of comfort, he sighed with frustration deep sleep. Wake up the next day, he suddenly found beloved dogs were also killed outside the door. Xiangyiweiming only touched the dogs, he suddenly decided to end his own life, the world is no longer memorable. As a result, he had a final glance around all. At this time, he found that not all villages throughout the terrible silence in a quiet way. He can not move hurriedly, ah, horrible, dead bodies, dead bodies everywhere, a mess. It is clear that the village was last night the bandits looted the whole village a breadwinner did not stay. To see this terrible scene, the elderly are not sharp mind, ah! I am here only to survive, I have to live strong. At this point, a red sun rising, according to get around a bright, happy people to think I am a world where the only survivors, I have no reason not to treasure their own. Although I lost my beloved dogs, but I got a life, this is the most valuable in life.
With a firm belief in the elderly, facing the bright sun and starting. Everyone will encounter setbacks and failures, particularly those engaged in direct cause of the people, for your failure and painful, in fact, you have been in life. The key is to have your understanding that life is a series of Gains with losses .
Monday, December 8, 2008
Let's Be Friends
Second method: You teach the boys said, "Let's be friends with you"
If you boys learned to say "Let's be friends with you," they tend to have mastered the interpersonal relationships of the initiative. In fact, children learn to say "Let's be friends with you," is a show, and they are happy to make friends, make friends with music for the gesture. This attitude often gives rise to the expression.
7-year-old boy told his family aunt had just come back from the Inner Mongolia Prairie Tourism, aunt to a guest house, and his aunt were talking the whole family joy. His aunt asked: "How do you like Kao Yangtui Inner Mongolia? How do they come from?"; Let him speak to his small cousin of the Spring River in Inner Mongolia, on the prairie horse; his round Yifu talk to him yurts Inner Mongolia weather. The results of the whole family because the little one to enjoy and share the pleasure.
Asked someone to share their interest in the content, is to make friends with others, showing a friendly manner, but also people with a skill to get along better. As a result, parents can teach you love to make friends of the boys have the skills. For example, parents can tell you that the boys, more people want good, talk with them, we must own at least, to ask each other, find each other's interest in the topic say there are a lot of talk, Please share each other's interest in him, his most memorable experiences, his greatest success, and so on.
If you boys learned to say "Let's be friends with you," they tend to have mastered the interpersonal relationships of the initiative. In fact, children learn to say "Let's be friends with you," is a show, and they are happy to make friends, make friends with music for the gesture. This attitude often gives rise to the expression.
7-year-old boy told his family aunt had just come back from the Inner Mongolia Prairie Tourism, aunt to a guest house, and his aunt were talking the whole family joy. His aunt asked: "How do you like Kao Yangtui Inner Mongolia? How do they come from?"; Let him speak to his small cousin of the Spring River in Inner Mongolia, on the prairie horse; his round Yifu talk to him yurts Inner Mongolia weather. The results of the whole family because the little one to enjoy and share the pleasure.
Asked someone to share their interest in the content, is to make friends with others, showing a friendly manner, but also people with a skill to get along better. As a result, parents can teach you love to make friends of the boys have the skills. For example, parents can tell you that the boys, more people want good, talk with them, we must own at least, to ask each other, find each other's interest in the topic say there are a lot of talk, Please share each other's interest in him, his most memorable experiences, his greatest success, and so on.
sell yourself
sell yourself
Successfully sell yourself is a prerequisite for contact with others, so parents should teach children "to promote" self-awareness.
jame is a happy little boy, he will come to understand where a lot of good friends. This is not today, a new kindergarten children, free, jame boat with it's own "dinosaur" children's books came to the side, with joy on the faces of the children said: "My name is jame, I Kehao put story-telling, I'll tell you 'the story of dinosaurs' it. "In a moment, then Geng Zhou and the new children became good friends.
In fact, every parent should give children "sell" self-awareness. To know that the self dare to sell some of the children aware of their own advantages, the needs of others, so that the children's self-confidence is, of the sun.
Many facts have proved that, whether adults or children, not everyone is so confident that they do not like the sun. Therefore, parents let children learn to market themselves, it is tantamount to giving the child a self-confident, optimistic, sunny personality, so that the children will go and he was happy to make friends.
jame is a happy little boy, he will come to understand where a lot of good friends. This is not today, a new kindergarten children, free, jame boat with it's own "dinosaur" children's books came to the side, with joy on the faces of the children said: "My name is jame, I Kehao put story-telling, I'll tell you 'the story of dinosaurs' it. "In a moment, then Geng Zhou and the new children became good friends.
In fact, every parent should give children "sell" self-awareness. To know that the self dare to sell some of the children aware of their own advantages, the needs of others, so that the children's self-confidence is, of the sun.
Many facts have proved that, whether adults or children, not everyone is so confident that they do not like the sun. Therefore, parents let children learn to market themselves, it is tantamount to giving the child a self-confident, optimistic, sunny personality, so that the children will go and he was happy to make friends.
successful of communication
success of communication
Communication - the success of the boys must have the ability
Parents are often outlined in the minds of their own boys grow up to the image of success: the workplace should be free on the management of people, wonderful shopping at the mouth of the flower negotiator, dominated the entrepreneurs, the popular politician ... ... There is no denying that this The success of all the men need to have a strong ability with people.
However, in real life, a lot of little boy's performance is worrying: self-centered, strong attack, not gregarious, the feminization of serious tendency ... ... As a result, they often show want to see strangers, and afraid to strangers People to speak and can not get along with others and so on. Such children how to attach the image of success with those who do?
Carnegie has said that a successful, professional knowledge is the role played by 15%, and accounted for 85% of communicative competence. In other words, the harmonious interpersonal relations, exchanges of high-strength skills, social an important criterion for judging success.
Strong skills, children benefit. Good contacts with other people's children in the schools, not only be able to easily contact with the people of the same age, but also with the teacher calmly, and other exchanges between adults. The child is good at dealing with other people in the crowd how the popularity of his later life, learning and the development of a lot. As a result, parents from a young age to cultivate children's attention with people.
Parents are often outlined in the minds of their own boys grow up to the image of success: the workplace should be free on the management of people, wonderful shopping at the mouth of the flower negotiator, dominated the entrepreneurs, the popular politician ... ... There is no denying that this The success of all the men need to have a strong ability with people.
However, in real life, a lot of little boy's performance is worrying: self-centered, strong attack, not gregarious, the feminization of serious tendency ... ... As a result, they often show want to see strangers, and afraid to strangers People to speak and can not get along with others and so on. Such children how to attach the image of success with those who do?
Carnegie has said that a successful, professional knowledge is the role played by 15%, and accounted for 85% of communicative competence. In other words, the harmonious interpersonal relations, exchanges of high-strength skills, social an important criterion for judging success.
Strong skills, children benefit. Good contacts with other people's children in the schools, not only be able to easily contact with the people of the same age, but also with the teacher calmly, and other exchanges between adults. The child is good at dealing with other people in the crowd how the popularity of his later life, learning and the development of a lot. As a result, parents from a young age to cultivate children's attention with people.
In fact, for any of the boys, they all want to look forward to a few thinking, learning or life like-minded friends, to obtain recognition from friends, to encourage, support and trust. However, some parents let their education exchanges in a little bit of sense to weaken. If the parents told the boys love to make friends:
"Do not learn from the students and a Wanya!"
"Do not over-and female students from close!"
"Do not bad, and those too close!"
... ...
The parents of these boys do not know or let go; so that they can be closed or own, with people do not love; or allow them to become good popularity ... ...
Learning is in the knowledge society, to explore life during the boys of the same age and the establishment of friendship and exchanges between the partners is a normal psychological needs. At this time, do not deviate from the normal track of life under the premise that parents do not give them too much. These boys will restricted prematurely secular, utilitarian; or cause their dissatisfaction and to stimulate their mental treason, which affects their ability to contact, they can lead to the formation of their eccentric, depression, paranoia and other psychological disorder.
To the parents of the proposed
Achievements in children's ability to life, habits, basically as a child in foster children together, the boy's skills even more so. As a child to know other people took the initiative to greet the boys, often grow up to know how to become friends with strangers; know how as a child with people skills of boys grow up, tend to attract more of a friend; popularity as a child a good boy, grow up There will always be a lot of life, career ... helpful ...
Friday, December 5, 2008
success quotations （3）
success quotations （3）
1，Success and failure are both difficult to endure. Along with success come drugs, divorce, fornication, bullying, travel, meditation, medication, depression, neurosis and suicide. With failure comes failure.-- Joseph Heller
2，My success just evolved from working hard at the business at hand each day.-- Johnny Carson
3，Success is that peace of mind that comes from knowing you've done everything in your power to become the very best you're capable of becoming.-- John Wooden
4，Success is neither magical nor mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying the basic fundamentals.-- Jim Rohn
5，I've never sought success in order to get fame and money; it's the talent and the passion that count in success.-- Ingrid Bergman
6，When I was younger, I thought that the key to success was just hard work. But the real foundation is faith. Faith -- the idea that "I can do it -- is the opposite of fear (What if I fail?). And faith creates motivation which in turn leads to commitment, hard work, preparation ... and eventually success.-- Howard Twilley
7，Before everything else, getting ready is the secret of success.-- Henry Ford
8，We must walk consciously only part way toward our goal, and then leap in the dark to our success.-- Henry David Thoreau
9，Success is only another form of failure if we forget what our priorities should be.-- Harry Lloyd
10，I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.-- George Burns
success quotations （2）
success quotations （2）
1，There is no point at which you can say,Well, I am successful now. I might as well take a nap.-- Carrie Fisher
2，There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.-- Colin Powell
3，The true measure of your worth includes all the benefits others have gained from your success，-- Cullen Hightower
4，The secret of success is to be in harmony with existence, to be always calm，to let each wave of life wash us a little farther up the shore.-- Cyril Connolly
5，All of us are born for a reason, but all of us don't discover why. Success in life has nothing to do with what you gain in life or accomplish for yourself. It's what you do for others.-- Danny Thomas
6，You cannot get ahead while you are getting even.-- Dick Armey
7，I really think happiness is very closely aligned with success, and may almost be an interchangeable synonym. Happiness (like success) also comes from doing what we feel called to do in life， however, it's also obvious no one can experience one without the other.-- Donna Fargo
8，Why not be oneself? That is the whole secret of a successful appearance. If one is a greyhound why try to look like a Pekinese?-- Edith Sitwell
9，Don't confuse fame with success. Madonna is one; Helen Keller is the other.-- Erma Bombeck
10，Success is not the result of spontaneous combustion. You must first set yourself on fire.-- Fred Shero
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